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Dorothy Ruth Gathercoal Cruickshank

February 11, 1936 ~ February 29, 2024 (age 88)

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Dorothy Cruickshank Obituary

Dorothy Ruth Gathercoal Cruickshank died the morning of February 29, 2024. She was 88 years old, having just celebrated her birthday a few weeks earlier. Dorothy was born on February 11, 1936 at home in Wilmette, Illinois. She was preceded in death by her husband, John J. Cruickshank, whom she married in 1959, and her older sister Bette. Dorothy is survived by her daughter Betsy (husband Tom), granddaughter Katie (husband Sam) and granddaughter Annie (husband Kyle), and brother, James (wife Carmen).

 

Between February 11, 1936 and February 29, 2024 she lived a very full life from Camp Fire Girls, mowing lawns and playing along the banks of the Willamette River when her family moved to Corvallis during World War II. She was known for easily making friends and playfully tormenting her younger brother. After graduating from Corvallis High School she attended Oregon State College, where she enjoyed making friends with her sorority sisters in Delta Gamma and studying to become a teacher. Always interested in helping others (and having fun along the way), she eventually obtained a Masters degree in counseling from the University of Oregon. Despite the U of O Masters degree, she was a Beavers fan through-and-through. She spent many years teaching in Bend, LaGrande, Corvallis and eventually Eugene where she transitioned to a school counselor. Along with working full-time, and never one to sit still, she taught evening parenting classes, ran outdoor schools, and was active in and became the president of many professional organizations including the Oregon Society of Individual Psychology and the Oregon Counseling Association. One of the outstanding traits that Dorothy had was that she collected friends and maintained lifelong friendships – people she went to grade school, high school and college with. People she met while teaching, skiing, gardening and volunteering. She maintained these friendships into her 80’s and continued to make friends at every retirement community she lived in.

 

After retiring in 1993 from school counseling, where she had an uncanny ability to connect with children, she became even busier volunteering with the Eugene Garden Club, Pearl Buck Center, and the League of Women Voters. Dorothy was an avid gardener and claimed she never met a plant she didn’t like. Her garden was an eclectic mix of whatever caught her eye while visiting other gardens and nurseries. One of her favorite trips was to England to visit English gardens and she came home with many specimens that she claimed she legitimately obtained but her family always questioned. On a family trip to Yellowstone she tried to smuggle a buffalo chip (which is literally buffalo poop) into her luggage. This led to an interesting conversation with the TSA on the way home. A trip with Dorothy was always interesting, always involved laughter, and only occasionally involved the authorities.

 

Dorothy also had four nephews and two nieces who she loved spoiling with presents, especially if the presents would annoy their parents – think loud musical instruments and toys with very small parts. Dorothy was always organizing something fun, whether it was a float trip down the river, a bonfire, camping, skiing, a tea party, or strawberry picking as soon as possible in June. She was known for her mouthwatering strawberry jam and a surprisingly delicious strawberry soup. Besides her family and gardening Dorothy’s greatest passion was skiing at Hoodoo and Bachelor. She was at Bachelor on opening day in 1958 and had a season pass there for many many decades. Her last ski trip she was talked into skiing down the headwall at Hoodoo at the age of 80! There is even a picture of her at the Hoodoo lodge, which she loved to show off to anyone who was walking past.

 

A celebration of life gathering will be held in Eugene in the summer of 2024.

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Dorothy was a counselor at Edgewood school when both of our boys went there. She did not have a lot of contact with them, but when various activities came up, she always knew exactly what was happening and how to deal with them. In one of our son’s past, he had been putting up with a bully too long. Our son finally took care of the bully with a punch in the nose. As can happen in these circumstances we heard that a few friends of the bully were going to get even. When we talked to Dorothy, she already knew what had happened and knew the bully was rightfully dealt with. She had already singled out each member of the bully friends and let them know there would be trouble if a “get even” was attempted. Situation handled!

We are deeply sorry for your loss ~ the staff at Riverview Abbey Funeral Home
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I taught at Washington school with Dorothy. I remember her as strong minded, and not shy about expressing her opinion. However, she also had the ability to accept decisions other’s opinions and decisions. That’s a great quality.
I am sorry for your loss. She lived life to its fullest.

I knew Mrs. Cruickshank when she worked as a school counselor at Kennedy Middle School in Eugene while I was a student there. I have many fond memories of her. One time she sat me down after a fight with another kid and made us talk it out. Another time a new kid arrived at school from Iran, who barely spoke English, and Mrs. Cruickshank assigned me to be his buddy to help him integrate. She was a chaperone on a summer trip to the east coast in 1985 which I went on. I clearly remember walking down the streets of Boston, Philadelphia, and Washington DC with her, laughing and talking non-stop. And most importantly, she taught parenting classes which my parents attended, and that made a big difference in our family. She was very straightforward but a lot of fun, and a wonderful person in my life during that time. Very sorry to hear of her passing.

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